My wife changed after a failed threesome with her best friend. Now I feel sick by my actions.

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l love my wife and she’s the most beautiful woman I know. Her best friend is her best friend since first day of school. I have always thought that she looked nice. After her divorce she changed a lot. She is more outgoing, less serious and she took more care of herself. She also became flirtatious. She brought up threesome and said that she always thought I was hot. We laughed because I thought she was joking but I wouldn’t stop thinking about it. She was literally living in my head. I started talking to my wife about that comment and after I assured her that it was just an adventure she agreed.

Afterwards my wife just changed. She doesn’t say much and she doesn’t complain but she doesn’t look at me. I don’t know why she agreed if she didn’t want to try it. I thought it would be an adventure but she is like another human being now. She never talks to me until I talk to her. She never laughs when she always loved laughing. Her best friend says that my wife doesn’t text or speak to her anymore either. When we aks she says it wasn’t that and that she’s fine. It’s all in our head.

Yesterday we thought we could have an intervention so her best friend came over. When she saw us and we told her we needed to talk she freaked out and was very angry and accused us of not believing her and disrespecting her. She told me that I could sleep with her friend if I wanted sex and she wouldn’t mind. Her friend was intrigued and she told me that she didn’t mind but I felt sick to my stomach. I don’t even understand how I thought her attractive. She keeps texting me too and I am repulsed. I told my wife that but she didn’t even react just said okay, do what and who you want. I am okay.

How can I fix this

Edit:

I didn’t know people will chew me out like this. I fucked up yes. I will cut contact with the friend and tell her to stop talk to my wife too. Them I will try to save my marriage because I love my wife. Hopefully she’ll come around


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